Reflections of Life

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, or sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. - unknown

"Beginnings are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it's everything in between that makes it all worth living." - Sandra Bullock in "Hope Floats"

Hello Everyone, Too often we experience work related stress that prevails into our personal lives. Stress of any kind is definitely a death trap. Why? Stress breaks down the body & mind. Over time stress will begin to cause different non-productive reactions to life emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. Thus, finding ourselves at doctor's office time after time. Stress is no way to live a healthy life. We must create balance! We can start by not complaining or succumbing to office drama. We must focus and remember that work is an exchange of service. We issue professional customer service in exchange for a salary. All work related problems will not be resolved in one day. After all, God did not create the earth in one day. Perhaps, we should redirect our energy to positive outcomes at work. Positive energy begins with one’s self assessments of life objectives. Therefore, asking how to be an asset instead of an insult. When we speak negative ...

Today I want to speak on the word “Loneliness”. Everyone at some point in your life has felt alone & disregarded. If this is your current state of mind, I want you take a moment to reflect on your feelings and why you feel alone. I want you to analyze yourself and access the true reason behind thoughts of loneliness. Are you truly feeling alone due to not having the physical or mental ability to be mobile to attend social gatherings or interact within society?   Perhaps the true reason is that you withdraw yourself from public and people because of current or past pain due to failed relationships with a lover, family or friends. Sometimes our emotions dictate our actions. Any negative emotions can cause the strongest person to shut down. Although it is normal to take time out for yourself or withdraw temporarily to heal from pain or collect yourself, you do not want to withdraw from society and give up on life.. No! No! Your life is precious and was given...

I awoke this morning with a smile on my face. Thanking God for peace. The sun was shining bright, while the chirping of birds tickled my ears. I thought to myself, Wow! I am blessed. Life can be filled with obstacles and challenges. However, it is how we handle those challenges that define our personality and character. Being a woman is one of the most rewarding blessings I was given by God. As I grow older in my skin, I become more pleased with myself. Not just the physical aspects of myself, but the strength as a woman I possess. When I was a young girl my mother often talked about the advantages and dis-advantages of being a woman but, never the less it’s great. She would say “one day you will come to know what womanhood is for yourself”. Indeed I have! Womanhood to me is not a status it is a state of mind. To reach this point in my life derives from the highs and lows of a long journey of struggle, love, joy, confusion, discouragement, failure, low self-estee...

Positive thinking and Faith is the key to conquer fear.  When you trust that God is in control, your faith takes you to a level of pure peace. Fear can only hinder you when you allow negative thoughts to dwell within. Self-love is your number one investment. You must tell yourself daily that you can do all things through Christ because he gives you strength.  You can conquer fear by implementing stable and reachable goals. Never over or under plan. Stay focus! Be true to yourself. Do not allow others to speak or think for you. It is only when you allow God to create a clear path that all your dreams and desires will come to pass.  Do not become sidetracked by the success of family and friends. You have not been ace out! What is meant for you, will find you.  Destiny of your choice truly can be yours.  Even if Plan A doesn’t work out, at least you took the necessary steps to achieve.  Don’t give up on yourself. Keep moving and working hard. It ...